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What to do when your ex comes out as gay

My last relationship ended because my now ex-boyfriend realized he was gay. My last relationship ended because my ex-girlfriend realized she was straight. It happens. People break up all the time, for far pettier reasons. It may not help you, but it certainly helped me to take the mimosa-half-full outlook: Losing a lover because he was gay or straight, in my case absolves you of any of the blame.

How could you have? That our essential, elemental selves were rejected! Heterosexuality is doing just fine, thanks. It all boils down to a basic incompatibility. Is it really worse to be left because of a revised sexual orientation, rather than any other number of situations, like being left for another woman, being left for your sister or being left for a blow-up doll named Francine?

My point is that it always sucks, regardless of how we hierarchize our grief. You are blameless! Try not to let them get a rise out of you. Want to ask Anna an anonymous question about love, sex or dating?

Need to give your dating life a boost? Sign up for RedEye Dating. Sign up now and never be bored again. Anna Pulley. Dear Anna, My last relationship ended because my now ex-boyfriend realized he was gay.

My ex is gay. How do I not take it personally?

My last relationship ended because my now ex-boyfriend realized he was gay. My last relationship ended because my ex-girlfriend realized she was straight. It happens.

We dated through two years of high school and one year after, kind of. I walked away knowing he was gay but not knowing who or what I was. A full decade later, Matthias reached out and we attempted to be friends.

There are good reasons for this. Hence, a lot of people dwell on an ex-partner, a process made considerably easier and more worrying with the advent of social media. As a result, despite the ending of the relationship, what your ex does can still affect you. But there seem to be an increasing number of people baffled by their ex coming out as gay.

Things You Only Know If Your Boyfriend Turns Out To Be Gay

Take the quiz. He left the relationship chasing something he thought would be better than what the two of you had. People do this when they take what they have for granted. Who knows if he caught what he was looking for or not. Everyone has trouble moving on after a breakup. This is even more true when you take into account that you ARE in another relationship. He was probably banking on the hope that you would come back to him. Seeing you with someone else most likely drove him to reach out on the chance that it might stir up some residual feelings. They imagine that you are still wasting away trying to figure out how to get them back. They imagine that all of your happy posts are simply a ploy to make them jealous.

My Ex Boyfriend Contacted Me But I’m In a Relationship

I wasn't the only one. Like most twentysomethings, we met through friends at university and bonded over a mutual love of all the usual things: good TV shows, sad songs, and dancing into the early hours. After bumping into each other and occasionally flirting for the best part of a year, we started working at the same pub and consequently spent a lot of time together. One thing led to another.






But I do so in the hopes that if it can alleviate the torment and suffering of just one person, it will have been worth the effort. For almost eight years from my early.








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